SEEKERS DOOR

I find it interesting how Indigo women have changed how the world perceives women. No longer the 'weaker' sex, Indigo women are strong, independent, self-reliant and powerful. They don't wait for a man to do things for them; they can do things for themselves. They are intelligent, resourceful and not afraid of anything. And yet, many of them are confused, uncertain and struggle with showing vulnerability. They can also have very unbalanced lives as they juggle their many obligations and interests. Many have either never married or married young and are now divorced. And many struggle with finding satisfying romantic relationships.

Many adult Indigos, men and women, who are now in their 40s and 50s had difficult relationships with their parents. Indigo women often had challenging relationships with their mothers in which they were criticized and judged or simply were not accepted for who they were. They also had difficult relationships with their fathers who were either absent or emotionally unavailable. When they became adults, this manifested in several ways-they either worked hard to become successful and prove their mother wrong or they married young to be a better parent than their mothers. Some women did both and despite the challenges and trials of single parenthood, were successful in raising their children and developing a career.

Indigo woman are among the first generation of women to be focused on meeting their needs instead of ignoring them or waiting for someone to show up and take care of them. There is a certain amount of guilt that they have to work through as they balance what they want to do with what they are expected to do. And they are in unfamiliar territory as they have few role models to let them know that they are on the right track, doing the right thing in the right way. They also can have little support from their family as they are the one who is 'different'. My mother used to ask me why I had to be so difficult and she thought that simply because I was independent and often challenged her authority.

It is not easy to be an Indigo woman because they are pioneers in a world that is not quite ready for them. They have a hard time finding friends who understand their independence and strength. And that also goes for romance. Many men find Indigo women challenging and have trouble knowing how to respond to them. Some men find their independence refreshing; others find it difficult and avoid it. But Indigo women have to be who they are and for many who are between relationships at this time, it means learning to be powerful, to live the life that they want to live and to be who they are without guilt or the need for approval from others. It is not always easy to be powerful and independent, but it is what Indigo women do best.

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Myth

Excellent post...

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